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Gossip Grill

Gossip Grill

Gossip Grill · Hillcrest • $$

One of the last lesbian bars in the US, Gossip Grill serves up daytime bar food that turns into a proper dance floor after dark. Karaoke nights, Taco Tuesdays, and a crowd that's actually looking out for each other.

30Z Dive Club (Three Ounce)

30Z Dive Club (Three Ounce)

Pacific Beach • $

A proper Funktion One rig in a cozy dive shell: 30Z brings European club energy and eclectic electronic bookings to Pacific Beach. Loud, intimate, and all about the music.

Gossip Grill

Gossip Grill

Hillcrest • $$

This women's bar starts as a laid-back grill by day, then transforms into a packed dance floor after dark. Between karaoke nights, Taco Tuesdays, and a generous happy hour, it's the kind of place where strangers become friends and friends become something more.

The Cordova Bar

The Cordova Bar

Morena

This place truly feels like home. Cordova Bar mixes strong cocktails, a crackling patio fireplace, and a crowd that'll cheer you on at karaoke or dance to Sunday bands. A rare bar where locals actually talk to strangers.

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