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November 4 at 7pm +34
Ginny's Supper Club · Harlem
A hidden basement supper club where gospel brunch Sundays turn into joyful singalongs with a live choir. The rest of the week brings jazz, soul food steakhouse fare, and a dance floor.
November 6 at 1am +24
The Terrace · Manhattan • $$
Tucked behind a tailor shop in Harlem, this intimate bar comes alive Thursdays with smooth R&B and DJs spinning through the weekend. Sip craft cocktails on the adorable terrace while the vibe keeps you lingering past midnight.
November 7 at 11am (This weekend) +41
Pasta Night · Prospect Heights • $$
It's like having a gay nonna on Vanderbilt Avenue: giant plates of seasonal homemade pasta, meatballs the size of a baby's head, and drag nights that turn dinner into a party. Brunch brings hot honey pizzas and that same big family energy.
Native Harlem · Manhattan • $$$$
West African dishes meet dance-floor energy at this Harlem spot where live performers and DJs turn dinner into a full-blown party. Expect Jollof Rice, Braised Oxtail, and cocktails with a punch.
La Esquina Brasserie · Manhattan • $$
Slip past the taco stand facade and descend into this moody underground brasserie where live DJs spin, cocktails flow, and dishes like Carnitas and Pescado a las Brasas deliver elevated Mexican heat.
The Stonewall Inn · Manhattan
Where pride began. This historic bar—site of the 1969 riots that sparked the gay rights movement—is still packed with dancers, drag shows, and an energy that honors the past while celebrating the future.
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Wed, Nov 4 · 11:00 PM
Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Manhattan
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Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Midtown
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Industry Bar · Hell's Kitchen
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Wed, Nov 4 · 11:00 PM
Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Manhattan
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Wed, Nov 4 · 7:00 PM
THE LAST CALL · Southside
Wed, Nov 4 · 8:00 PM
Desert 5 Spot · Williamsburg
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Wed, Nov 4 · 6:00 PM
Epic Lounge · South Ozone Park
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Wed, Nov 4 · 6:00 PM
The Bush · Bushwick
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Wed, Nov 4 · 11:00 PM
Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Midtown
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 3:00 PM
Phoenix Bar · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 12:00 PM
Aqua Roma | New York · Manhattan
Thu, Nov 5 · 8:00 PM
Somebody's Darling · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
Salvaje Social Club NYC · East Elmhurst
Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
C'mon Everybody · Bedford-Stuyvesant
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Thu, Nov 5 · 3:00 PM
Havana Central Times Square · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
Swan Marina NYC · Jamaica
Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
Industry Bar · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
JIMMY · SoHo
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Thu, Nov 5 · 12:00 PM
Hutong New York · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
Highwater Rooftop · Financial District
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Thu, Nov 5 · 7:00 PM
Bourbon Street · Bayside
Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
IYKYK Forest Hills · Forest Hills
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Thu, Nov 5 · 12:00 PM
Vida Verde - Tequila Bar · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
Nowhere · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 9:00 PM
Tete-a-Tete · Sheepshead Bay
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Thu, Nov 5 · 7:00 PM
Doha Bar Lounge - Brunch, Bar & Restaurant · LIC
Thu, Nov 5 · 8:00 PM
Tadpole · Bedford-Stuyvesant
Thu, Nov 5 · 3:00 PM
Republica Restaurant Rooftop & Lounge · Inwood
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Thu, Nov 5 · 5:00 PM
Virgin Hotels New York City · Manhattan
Thu, Nov 5 · 9:30 PM
THE ROOF · Lower East Side
Thu, Nov 5 · 9:00 PM
Bar Calico · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge · Brooklyn Heights
Thu, Nov 5 · 3:00 PM
Metropolitan · Williamsburg
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Thu, Nov 5 · 9:00 PM
Bar Calico · Manhattan
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Thu, Nov 5 · 4:00 PM
The Dining Room at RH Guesthouse New York · Manhattan
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Fri, Nov 6 · 8:00 PM
IL Sole · Manhattan
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
Swift Hibernian Lounge · NoHo
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Fri, Nov 6 · 6:00 PM
Frida Midtown · Midtown
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
The Stonewall Inn · West Village
Fri, Nov 6 · 9:00 PM
Mera Restaurant · Gravesend
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Fri, Nov 6 · 4:00 PM
CZEN Restaurant · Flatlands
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
Sycamore Bar + Flower Shop · Flatbush
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
Metropolitan · Williamsburg
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Fri, Nov 6 · 9:00 PM
Lokum Mediterranean Restaurant and Bar · Sheepshead Bay
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
ARTSPACE · Manhattan
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Fri, Nov 6 · 9:00 PM
Mera Restaurant · Gravesend
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
Swift Hibernian Lounge · Manhattan
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Fri, Nov 6 · 6:00 PM
Frida Midtown · Midtown
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Fri, Nov 6 · 6:00 PM
The Stonewall Inn · Manhattan
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Fri, Nov 6 · 9:00 PM
Mera Restaurant · Gravesend
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Fri, Nov 6 · 4:00 PM
Drift BK Restaurant & Lounge · East Flatbush
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Fri, Nov 6 · 9:00 PM
Dear Irving on Hudson Rooftop Bar · Hell's Kitchen
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Fri, Nov 6 · 4:00 PM
CZEN Restaurant · Flatlands
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Fri, Nov 6 · 10:00 PM
Harriet's Lounge · Brooklyn Heights
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Sat, Nov 7 · 2:00 PM
CZEN Restaurant · Flatlands
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Sat, Nov 7 · 6:00 PM
230 Fifth Rooftop · Midtown
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Sat, Nov 7 · 9:00 PM
IL Sole · Inwood
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