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THREE MATCHAS, OCTOBER

THREE MATCHAS, OCTOBER

October 25 at 5pm (This weekend) +1

Song Tea & Ceramics · Lower Pacific Heights

Four seats, three matchas, zero pretension. This tiny guided tasting pours two house matchas plus a wild-card tea, each paired with a sweet bite made just for the occasion.

Red Door Coffee

Red Door Coffee

October 26 at 4pm

111 Minna Gallery and Event Space · Yerba Buena

A café hiding inside an art gallery, Red Door pours Excelsior espresso, mushroom lattes, and Irish coffees beneath rotating artwork. Bring your laptop or sketchbook and stay awhile.

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

November 1 at 4pm (Next weekend) +4

Cinderella Bakery & Cafe · Inner Richmond • $

Roll up to this monthly morning meetup where women and non-binary cyclists swap route tips, find riding buddies, and caffeinate before the workday. Beginners especially welcome: bring your questions and leave with new friends.

Cartoonist Conspiracy of San Francisco Collaborative Drawing Jam

Cartoonist Conspiracy of San Francisco Collaborative Drawing Jam

November 11 at 3am +6

Finjan Qahwa · Bernal Heights • Free

Join local cartoonists for collaborative jam comics at this warm Mission cafe. Bring your sketchbook, grab some cardamom coffee, and let the drawings (and conversations) flow.

Open Hearth – Robiraki

Open Hearth – Robiraki

November 13 at 2am

Urasenke Foundation San Francisco · North Beach • $50

Celebrate the opening of the sunken hearth, a seasonal ritual where centuries-old precision meets quiet transcendence. You'll share zenzai and watch matcha whisked with meditative grace, then sip thin tea in a silence that feels earned.

THREE TEAS, OCTOBER

THREE TEAS, OCTOBER

October 23 at 7am +2

Song Tea & Ceramics · Lower Pacific Heights

Three pots, four people, zero rush: Song Tea's monthly tasting is basically a book club for tea nerds. October pours roasty, high-fired oolongs that taste like candied fruit and campfire.

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Tue, Oct 20 · 9:00 PM

Alembic Community Co-Working

The Alembic · Haight-Ashbury

Free

Sat, Oct 24 · 8:00 AM

Events

Noe Valley Town Square · Noe Valley

Sat, Oct 24 · 3:00 PM

Bernal Chess Club Game Day

Progressive Grounds · Holly Park

Free

Sat, Oct 24 · 8:00 AM

Weekly Walk for Deep Chats (The Board Walks)

Coffee To The People · Haight-Ashbury

Free

Sat, Oct 24 · 3:00 PM

Bernal Chess Club

Progressive Grounds · Holly Park

$

Sat, Oct 24 · 10:00 AM

Community Coffee Social

San Francisco AIDS Foundation · SoMa

Mon, Oct 26 · 10:00 AM

Coffee & Pastries by Ujamaa Kitchen

The Food Pavilion · India Basin

$$

Fri, Nov 6 · 8:00 AM

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

Mercury Cafe · Hayes Valley

$

Fri, Nov 6 · 8:00 AM

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

Kantine · Mint Hill

$$

Fri, Nov 6 · 8:00 AM

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

Four Barrel Coffee · Mission District

$$

Fri, Nov 6 · 8:00 AM

Women & Non-Binary Bike SF Coffee Club

Duboce Park Cafe · Duboce Triangle

$$

Coffee Shop Dance Party

Mellow Haight · Haight-Ashbury

Cutest Pet Contest

Fayes · Mission Dolores

$

Mewvie Nights

KitTea Cat Lounge · Mission District

55-minute Cat Lounge Visit

KitTea Cat Lounge & Cat Rescue · Mission District

$30

Cats on Mats yoga nights

KitTea Cat Lounge · Mission District

Tea in Wonderland: A Mindful Immersive Tea Ceremony Experience

The Gregangelo Museum · West of Twin Peaks

30-minute Cat Lounge Visit

KitTea Cat Lounge & Cat Rescue · Mission District

$18

Lovestruck at Love Potion Library

The Love Potion Library - Books, Tea, Wine · Duboce Triangle

$25

Live Opera Performances

Caffe Trieste · North Beach

$

Holiday Tea Party

Sip Tea Room · Inner Sunset

$$

Joy's Place

Lower Nob Hill

$

Wake Cup

Haight-Ashbury

$

Jolt N Bolt Bakery & Cafe

Dogpatch

$

Blue Bottle Coffee

Pacific Heights

$$

Unexpected Era Café

Tenderloin

$

Kokak Chocolates

Castro District

Mountain Boba

Union Square

$

Flywheel Coffee Roasters

Haight-Ashbury

$

Café Atlas

Financial District

Home Coffee Roasters

Chinatown

$$

Imperial Tea Court

Financial District

Jane on Third

Transbay

Postscript

North Beach

Bluestone Lane Front Street Coffee Shop

Financial District

$$

Cuppa

Glen Park

$

La Reyna Bakery & Coffee Shop

Mission District

$

Muddy Waters Coffee & Lounge

Mission District

$

Cafe de Casa

Fisherman's Wharf

$

Four Barrel Coffee

Mission District

$$

Le Mil's Coffee

Lower Nob Hill

Progressive Grounds

Bernal Heights

$

Moka Coffee

Polk Gulch

$

Ballast Coffee

Saint Francis Wood

$$

The Village

Polk Gulch

$

Royal Ground Coffee

Seacliff

$

Dynamo Donut & Coffee

Mission District

$$

Diamond Coffee N Pastry

Outer Richmond

$

Earth Tone Cafe

Inner Sunset

Little Sweet

Union Square

$

La Boulangerie de San Francisco

Hayes Valley

$$

George’s Cafe

West Portal

$$

LOQUAT

Civic Center

$$

Abanico Coffee Roasters

Mission District

$

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Frequently asked questions

Where should I look for theatre and music in San Francisco?

New Conservatory Theatre Center is worth checking for intimate productions and queer stories. For an evening built around dancing, look at the programme at Madrone Art Bar. Pick the production or music first; the room is only half the decision.

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