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Workshops & Classes

Latin Rounds with Live Percussions

Latin Rounds with Live Percussions

November 12 at 4:30am +5

Dance Boulevard · Sartorette and Rose

Sharpen your Latin dance technique at the Bay Area's biggest competitive rounds, held every Wednesday with tasks, challenges, and finals. On the second Wednesday of each month, Edgardo Cambon brings live percussion to elevate the energy.

Salsa & Bachata Dance Lessons

Salsa & Bachata Dance Lessons

November 11 at 2am +53

Mambonova Dance Company · Santa Clara

Whatever troubles plague you during the week melt away after stepping into class. Héctor Reyes builds your confidence from the very first step, teaching solid fundamentals with infectious passion that'll have you hooked on salsa or bachata.

Wine-Glass Painting Workshop

Wine-Glass Painting Workshop

Every day

YIJUN'S Fine Art Studio San Francisco · Yerba Buena • $118

Paint your own wine glass while sipping complimentary vino in a cozy studio filled with art. The playful instructors guide you through each brushstroke, whether you're a total beginner or a seasoned artist.

Adult Beginner Latin Group

Adult Beginner Latin Group

November 12 at 3:30am +20

Genesis DanceSport Studio · Inner Richmond

Learn Cha-Cha, Rumba, and Samba at this beloved Pacific Heights studio where serious technique meets a warm, beginner-friendly atmosphere that welcomes dancers of all levels.

Performances

A Case for the Existence of God

A Case for the Existence of God

November 11 at 7:30pm +11

New Conservatory Theatre Center · Civic Center

Two men sit in a cubicle, reducing components to the bare minimum in a transformative play about hope. Visitors attend a ninety-minute performance without intermission at the New Conservatory Theatre Center.

Peter Pan Goes Wrong

Peter Pan Goes Wrong

November 11 at 3am +22

San Francisco Playhouse · Union Square • $60 – $145

Passes are available for Peter Pan Goes Wrong at the San Francisco Playhouse, scheduled for a single evening performance on Tuesday, November 10, 2026.

FREE Comedy Night

FREE Comedy Night

November 12 at 3:30am +34

The Function · Civic Center

A weekly comedy showcase in a sleek Hayes Valley lounge where sharp crowd work meets solid cocktails and an electric room. Come for the laughs, stay for the banter.

Covenant

Covenant

Every day at 7pm from Nov. 6 to Dec. 13

Berkeley Repertory Theatre · Downtown Berkeley • $55

A haunting Southern drama where superstition and blues collide. Avery wants to flee her Georgia town's secrets, but her childhood friend Johnny returns as a star, stirring whispers of a dark deal. Truth and myth blur in this gripping exploration of belief and inescapable fate.

Concerts

Gaucho

Gaucho

November 11 at 7pm

The Deluxe · Haight-Ashbury • $10

Gypsy jazz meets New Orleans swing, gutbucket blues, and ragtime as the Bay Area band Gaucho performs live at The Deluxe.

Greg Koch & The Koch Marshall Trio

Greg Koch & The Koch Marshall Trio

November 12 at 3am

Biscuits and Blues · Lower Nob Hill • $30-$65

No bass player, no singer, and nothing between the listener and the guitar: the Koch Marshall Trio takes the stage at Biscuits and Blues with Hammond B3 organ and drums for an evening of live music.

Sam Peoples

Sam Peoples

November 11 at 7pm

Sheba Piano Lounge · Western Addition • $$

Fillmore-born keyboardist Sam Peoples brings deeply rooted Bay Area jazz to Sheba Piano Lounge, carrying forward the neighborhood heritage with a fluid, soulful piano style shaped by decades of local collaboration.

THE DAMNED - FINAL DAMNATION 50

THE DAMNED - FINAL DAMNATION 50

November 11 at 8pm

The Fillmore · Western Addition

Rock reaches the Fillmore stage as The Damned performs their Final Damnation 50 set.

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Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Natural Quartz Sand Texture Art Experience

310 4th St · South of Market

$120

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Heidi Evelyn Swing Band - Live Swing Music & Lindy Hop

Broadway Studios · North Beach

$15 general -- includes beginner lesson $10 before 8:30 PM or after 10 PM $5 after 11 PM

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Weekly Vertical Dance Technique Class

BANDALOOP · Prescott

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Ray Simpson Big Band Dance

Corte Madera Community Center · Corte Madera

$10

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:15 PM

Ryan Coogler's SINNERS

Grand Lake Theatre · Grand Lake

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Flow, Breathe, and Let Go: Vinyasa Yoga

Treehouse Hotel Silicon Valley · Sunnyvale

Wed, Nov 11 · 8:00 PM

Wednesday Night Live

White Rabbit Bar · Union Street

$$

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

The Laugh Boat: Local Brews & Free Comedy

Ocean Ale House · West of Twin Peaks

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:45 PM

CHRISTOPHERS

Smith Rafael Film Center · San Rafael

$15

Wed, Nov 11 · 8:00 PM

NOV 11 8pm

The Castro Theatre · The Castro

Thu, Nov 12 · 5:00 PM

BJJ Kids (4–7y)

Fúria Fight Club · Belmont

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:45 PM

Little Tatsu

Maru Dojo · Mission Dolores

$150

Fri, Nov 13 · 5:00 PM

Tech Support Hour

Mechanics' Institute · Union Square

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Lara Louise

North Beach Restaurant · North Beach

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Salsa Bachata Wednesdays at Albertos

Albertos Night Club · Old Mountain View

$

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Dribble Club

The Ultimate Fieldhouse · Ygnacio Valley

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Sip and Paint Team Building Event

YIJUN'S Fine Art Studio San Francisco · Yerba Buena

$89

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Wednesday Social Dance Training

Mystique Ballroom Company · Walnut Creek

$33.85-$40

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Kids Beginner Latin Group

Genesis DanceSport Studio · Inner Richmond

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Fitness & Wellness

Casa Circulo Cultural · Fair Oaks

$40

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:45 PM

Kids Class

Maru Dojo · Mission Dolores

$150

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

GOAT

Grand Lake Theatre · Grand Lake

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

6PM Wednesday Night Guided Meditation and Soundbath

Creative Healing Center & Crystal Boutique and Event Center · Livermore

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Live Jazz with Four Corners Jazz Ensemble

Max's of Burlingame · Ingold - Milldale

$$

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:45 PM

Kids Classes

The Little Gym of Morgan Hill · Morgan Hill

Wed, Nov 18 · 5:00 PM

6-8 year Jazz with Miss Holly

Studio O+A · SoMa

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Muay Thai Adults

Fúria Fight Club · Belmont

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

FREE Comedy Night (Every Wednesday)

The Function · Civic Center

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

FREE Comedy Night (Every Wednesday) at The Function (SF)

The Function · Civic Center

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Tuesday and Wednesday Blues Jams

Gardino's Ristorante Italiano · Los Gatos

$$

Wed, Nov 11 · 9:30 PM

ITALO FRISCO

Madrone Art Bar · North of Panhandle

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Natural Quartz Sand Texture Art Experience

YIJUN'S Fine Art Studio San Francisco · Yerba Buena

$120

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:45 PM

CTT Comedy presents Cheaper Than Therapy: Stand-Up Comedy

Shelton Theater · Union Square

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Ray Simpson Big Band Dance

Nevin Community Center · Iron Triangle

Wed, Nov 11 · 8:00 PM

Jiu Jitsu

Fúria Fight Club · Belmont

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Trivia Night

The Sound Room · Oakland Ave - Harrison St

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:45 PM

SILENT FRIEND

Smith Rafael Film Center · San Rafael

$15

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Wheel Wednesdays PM

Mill Valley Pottery Studio LLC · Almonte

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:15 PM

TOW

Smith Rafael Film Center · San Rafael

$15

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:45 PM

Birth Prep Prenatal

METTA YOGA - Corte Madera · Corte Madera

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Jazz Jams at Jupiter

Jupiter · Downtown Berkeley

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:30 PM

Betrayal

Marin Theatre Company · Mill Valley

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Power Flow

Oshman Family JCC · Palo Alto

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:00 PM

Jam The Bay

Park Station · Alameda

$0

Wed, Nov 11 · 8:00 PM

Essential Services Project (E.S.P.)

Theatre Rhinoceros · The Castro

Fri, Jan 8 · 7:00 PM

Junior Company II: High School Musical JR

Contra Costa Civic Theatre · El Cerrito

$1,050

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:30 PM

Grappling Class

Sandpiper Community Center · Redwood Shores

Wed, Nov 11 · 5:30 PM

Stretching & Conditioning

Mystique Ballroom Company · Walnut Creek

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:45 PM

Cheaper Than Therapy: Stand-up Comedy

Shelton Theater · Union Square

Wed, Feb 3 · 7:30 PM

SF Comedy Kings: An Old School Blowout

Punch Line Comedy Club - San Francisco · Financial District

FREE with RSVP (otherwise tickets are $18/$20)

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Guess What’s Coming To The Cow Palace?” Docu-series Is Here!

Cow Palace Arena & Event Center · Bayshore Heights

Wed, Nov 11 · 7:00 PM

Wednesday Swing Dance

DecoDance Bar · Lower Nob Hill

Free

Wed, Nov 11 · 6:30 PM

Stand-up Comedy at Mayes Oyster House

Mayes Oyster House · Lower Nob Hill

Free

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